foxybunny

I dated this guy "Mark" off and on for a year. We never went on a date really, just went back and forth between each other's houses. Then he moved closer to me and invited me over. I finally said something about the androgynous "dates" that we've been having and suggested we go out. He made a remark that will stay with me forever. I still visited and hung out there all day the next day with a friend of his "Jake". We got along real well, laughed and had a few drinks. Well, "Jake" had a girlfriend but by the end of the day he was speaking of breaking up with her....*thought*....exactly. He liked me, and I liked him. We started to hang out more often, behind "Mark"s back. Well, only at my house and with MY friends. I don't know where this is going to go if it stays a secret. It means, I can't go out with HIS friends or stay at HIS house...it's going to be my house, my friends all the time. So what do I do? Tell "Mark"? Or see how well it goes as a secret? Because ending it is not an option at this point. I really really really like this guy. A lot. You might say I'm falling in love with this guy. Here's another twist. I also have someone in my life who's currently "locked up" and has been for the past three years. We're in love but he doesn't know about my relationship with "Jake" and still thinks we're going to be together when he gets out. Um. HELP!

brainsmile

have a gal pal kiss Mark while you happen to walk in. Case solved.

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eSDee

You should go on Springer. You sounds just like the ladies on there.

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oblongmelon

boy isn't that the truth..

plus, the title of your post intrigues me..as I firmly believe there is NO predicament that involves men that you HAVE TO get yourself into..you sound like a glutton for punishment.

LPMiller

girl, you best learn to start being honest before it gets you killed.

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Merlin

So basically you were just banging each other.


foxybunny - "So can we do more than just knock boots? You know, something like go out?"
Mark - "No."


foxybunny - "Fine, then I'll start banging one of your friends. Oh look, here's one now" Cue fiendish laugh.


foxybunny - "What do I care? I'll be a homewrecker" Cue more fiendish laughter.


Of course he does. You sound easy.



So you're being used.


Don't worry, he already knows. He and Jake are probably trying to figure out who to pass you off to next for a "secret" relationship.


And of course you couldn't possibly be alone now could you?


So you're in love with some guy in prison but while he is on the inside you've hit the neighbor and his friend. This could be a real problem down the road.

Best thing you could do now is post the links to the videos of you having sex with Mark and Jake (I'm sure they are out there somewhere) and let us vote on which one you should stick with.

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nickel

when are you going to reveal to all of them that you are actually a man?

really, if this real, and not a set up to get attention here, you do need help. best advice is to stop asking for advice on random messageboards and get your sh#t together. you are headed for disaster, and you know right from wrong so start using your head.

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BigJon

Maybe you need to dump them all and be celibate for awhile. Seriously...sounds like you need to go to "cheaters anonymous".

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MJordanash

Wait until the locked up dude gets out and finds out about this. Hmmm...or maaaybe this is why he got locked up to begin with....killed the man she was cheating with. dun dun dun

clutchy

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DaFunkyUnit

maybe you should inquire about getting Eiffel Tower(ed).

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welfareloser

well... you can either make a decision, or sit back and see which one gets made for you... because something spectacularly decisive is inevitable. you're in complete control here, and there's no reason that it has to be such a mess. you can clean this up whenever you're ready to. and i'd encourage you to do so, sooner rather than later. you can hurst some feelings in a small way now, or watch them get hurt in a big way later.

as for the guy in prison... good lord, tell him you've moved on NOW so he has time to cool off BEFORE he gets out.

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hapoo

naw, that will just give him a lot of time to plan something evil.

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mcs328

All of your situations is not worth the drama. I think you should begin starting over because I don't see anything good coming out of if any of those situations happen to pan out.

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