My ex and I have been through alot of things together, between my ex-wife and the daughter that I have with her. But know that it comes to working on us or anything to do with doing things together to make us a better couple she'd rather be by herself and try and "find herself", of course that isn't something that she could do in a relationship with my help or understanding.
It's very hard to be understanding of her needs when she still tells me that she has very deep feelings for me and that she doesn't want to do this, but she "has to in order for her psyche not to get lost". I think that it would have been better if she had said F#@! you and never talked to me again.
Feeling very lonely without her and there isn't anything I can say to make it better. What should I do?