ok, so tonight we all had a "house warming" get-together at my friend Heather's house. (she moved in about a month ago remember?). Anyways, most everyone brought a little gift. So, after its all over, ppl are leaving, and she's hugging the girls and thanking them for the gifts, and giving the guys that "half hug" (you know the stand beside the guy and put your arm around his shoulders kida hug that some girls do - its a casual "thank-you" hug).... anyways, so im like the last one out and she *ALMOST* gives me a hug too. (kinda leaned towards me, but was kinda deciding weather or not she should).
So heres my theory... if she had no "feelings" for me, i would have gotten the "half-hug" like everyone else, BUT, since she does have something going on for me, she thought it I might think she was being too forward, or was waiting to see if i was gonna do the hug thing too, or keep my distance... Also, i may not have gotten the hug, since there were still people just outside the door, and since we've been hangin' together so much, she didnt want to start rumors by giving me a hug. (Believe me, rumors start WAY too easily around here!)
Now, the actual hug ain't no big deal... its the thought process thats behind NOT getting the hug that i'm wondering about...
so, is this a good thing, or a bad thing? (remember, she's a fairly "conservative" girl)