I was listening to a talk show on the radio on my way home tonight and the topic of course was ultimatums and marriage, it basically started off as what would be your response if one wanted to get married or they would leave. A lot of different issues came up such as how long they were dating and were they living together and so on, but the one issue that didn't come up was maturity, I do not expect a 23 year old to have the same values and maturity as a 40 year old. So to plot a scenario if I was 23 years old and after 3 years was given an ultimatum of course I would probably say no, I wouldn't expect any man or woman too, but If I was 40 years old and even after a year I think i would be experienced in life and mature enough to make a long life decision such as this and I would probably say yes. I am curious to know your views on this, would you be upset if someone gave you an ultimatum at 23? and do you think that at 40 years old you know what you want in life enough to date a person for one year and say yes to marriage. Can you tell this topic had my pants all up in a bunch for the ride home?