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    What's with all the screwed up Got|Apex relationships?

    Everytime I check for new threads, someone else is posing a question on how to get in/out of a complicated relationship. Interesting. Maybe it's cuz the holiday season is approaching and no one wants to be alone during it or something.


    Dunno. It just struck me as as a bit odd when I started to read skiAtomic's thread and thought, "have i already read this or was it someone else?"


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    i think when it comes down to it, many people in this world are in pretty weird or screwed up relationships. add to that the fact that we're a bunch of hapless geeks here, and i think you have your answer

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    wha chu talkin bout cheapie?

    i think it is nice to bounce our conflicts, and our issues off a variety of ppl.
    so as we have gotten more comfortable on this board we tell our virtual friends a lot, m'be too much

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    Originally posted by nickelback
    wha chu talkin bout cheapie?

    i think it is nice to bounce our conflicts, and our issues off a variety of ppl.
    so as we have gotten more comfortable on this board we tell our virtual friends a lot, m'be too much




    after re-reading my thread title, i sound a bit like an condescending ass. i too bounce my problems off of people here.

    i didn't mean for it to sound like "why is everyone here screwed up but me?" i was going more for the "i feel your pain fellow apexers. you can lean on me!"
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    Originally posted by cheapie

    condescending ass.


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    Seriously, though, I think a lot of people just have stuff to get off of their chests, and while I think it would be cool to have friends to open up to, I don't think anybody should have this kind of stuff laid on them all the time. he.. he.. I said laid....
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    did someone mention my name?

    I've been a nut case since my girlfriend left me 1.5 years ago... dated 26 girls/women since then

    The whole chain of events started when I got this internship, coincidence that my boss was the father of the girl I was dating, and now seemingly out of my control that the girl I’m seeing now was hiding that she had a boyfriend. C'est la vie... life's definitely interesting though.
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    I think people post about it because they want/need the attention from random strangers who are 90% stalker (proportion taken from another thread).....


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    Originally posted by nickelback
    wha chu talkin bout cheapie?

    i think it is nice to bounce our conflicts, and our issues off a variety of ppl.
    so as we have gotten more comfortable on this board we tell our virtual friends a lot, m'be too much

    when do virtual friends become real friends? i have people on here and other forums that i honestly think have evolved from virtual to real.

    and i have come here for advice for my rl problems as well. didn't get much but
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    i think virtual friends become real when you talk to them on the phone or have real life contact.

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    Nobody would have these problem if they just followed my advise.

    i think virtual friends become real when you talk to them on the phone or have real life contact.
    If you could bump into them on the street without recognizing them then they are not real friends.
    :monkey:

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    well, my take on it is that if i know one of my "real" friends has been in a similar situation, they'll be able to relate more. Luckily, with things like the rape thing I went through last year and little things like this, no one else I know had to go through it. If unfortunately someone else in the world (or here) had a similar situation, it's much easier to communicate over a common tie like that.



    At any rate, I often follow the advice that I get from people here... and even if you don't get any serious responses to a thread, seeing the humor everyone comes up with is still great to see
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    Originally posted by Merlin
    Nobody would have these problem if they just followed my advise.


    If you could bump into them on the street without recognizing them then they are not real friends.
    i would recognize you if we bumped into each other so what does that make us?

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    Originally posted by nickelback
    i think virtual friends become real when you talk to them on the phone or have real life contact.


    Definitely...last year we had a short lived file sharing message board with various topics on campus. I started talking to this one girl on it quite a bit, never really thought about actually meeting her, until one night while at a house party we started mingling (I didn't know it was her) and then she was sorta like "Hey, you're PrObLy arent you?!" it was really pretty freaky. Anyways, I ended up taking her home that night ... ok ok, not to get some, but because she was incredibly **** faced and wouldn't have made it back otherwise. Well, the moral of the story is that we started hanging out quite a bit and became decent friends...online people can be real friends too
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    Originally posted by Merlin
    Nobody would have these problem if they just followed my advise.
    I live in twee's closet and touch her every night without her noticing. Are you saying that's not friendship since she hasn't recognized me yet? What a sad fool you are.

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    Originally posted by revil

    I live in twee's closet and touch her every night without her noticing. Are you saying that's not friendship since she hasn't recognized me yet? What a sad fool you are.
    what the..?!?!


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    Originally posted by revil

    I live in twee's closet and touch her every night without her noticing. Are you saying that's not friendship since she hasn't recognized me yet? What a sad fool you are.
    From what she told me last night, you're not her friend

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    Originally posted by lilbigblue


    From what she told me last night, you're not her friend
    it's more than that?

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    i drank the other half

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    Originally posted by cheapchinese
    i drank the other half
    drank what?

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    Originally posted by tweeteresa

    drank what?
    ooo, he swallowed it
    don't matter, just don't bite it


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    Originally posted by PrObLy



    Definitely...last year we had a short lived file sharing message board with various topics on campus. I started talking to this one girl on it quite a bit, never really thought about actually meeting her, until one night while at a house party we started mingling (I didn't know it was her) and then she was sorta like "Hey, you're PrObLy arent you?!" it was really pretty freaky. Anyways, I ended up taking her home that night ... ok ok, not to get some, but because she was incredibly **** faced and wouldn't have made it back otherwise. Well, the moral of the story is that we started hanging out quite a bit and became decent friends...online people can be real friends too
    So she said your name with all alternating letters too huh?

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