Daughter Wears Sign as Punishment!

**ooBaKeep** · 11-17-2005, 11:20 AM

http://http://aolsvc.news.aol.com/news/article.adp?id=20051116141509990001&ncid=NWS00010000000001

Parenting at it's best!

**MikeD** · 11-17-2005, 11:21 AM

Clap clap clap...

A fine example of excellent parenting. I'd love to

with that woman...

**Lolita** · 11-17-2005, 11:57 AM

Interesting punishment, reminds me of the Curb Your Enthusiasm episode where Larry David had to stand outside of a restaurant with a sign that said "I steal forks from restaurants"

**Grimm** · 11-17-2005, 12:02 PM

Now that she has her daughters attention maybe some normal parenting techniques will work. But sometimes you have to step up and do something outragious to get a kid's attention.

**DarkFury** · 11-17-2005, 12:06 PM

That's almost as good as selling their Xbox 2 on Ebay...

That'll get their attention for sure...

**esme** · 11-17-2005, 12:09 PM

She already has been forced by her parents to give up basketball and track because of slipping grades, and said she hopes to improve in school so she can play next year.

they took away something she liked and that didn't work .....so i think what they did was a good idea!!

**InfiniteNothing** · 11-17-2005, 12:27 PM

I thought it was clever and probably appropriate. One thing to think about though is maybe the girl needs a tutor

**cadetevon** · 11-17-2005, 12:44 PM

More power to the mom.

**nickel** · 11-17-2005, 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by cadetevon

More power to the mom.

and dad.

**guiseppewv** · 11-17-2005, 01:38 PM

That is great.

Glad some parents still do a little parenting.

**tupacboy** · 11-17-2005, 02:08 PM

that's great... i hope she learns...

**BigJon** · 11-17-2005, 02:47 PM

*applause*

**FlyByPoster** · 11-17-2005, 03:38 PM

Somehow, I don't think that the parents have not tried positive reinforcement. The girl admitted that they've already gone the traditional route of taking away rewards. They live in an affluent area -- this may well be the lesson that the teenager needed to save her future. It's not like the mother left her standing there alone. Stoopid bleeding heart softies who called DHS.

By the way, the results for the AOL poll posted on the site:

Does this seem like a good way to teach a child a lesson?
Yes 75%
No 15%
I'm not sure 10%
Total Votes: 90,542

**YanksFanRy** · 11-17-2005, 04:12 PM

I think it's a fine idea. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

**Markel** · 11-17-2005, 07:53 PM

Of course, you get the typical "expert" response: "Donald Wertlieb, a professor of child development at the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Development at Tufts University, warned that such punishment could do extreme emotional damage. He said rewarding positive behavior is more effective."

Thankfully, Mr. Wertlieb is not raising this girl.

**Mommypooh** · 11-17-2005, 10:12 PM

I think it is a great idea and if it worked all the better.

**yippiekiyeh** · 11-18-2005, 12:19 AM

I love how everyone likes to blame the parents when the children turn out bad. But then blame the parents when they care and discipline their own children. Stick to your guns parents!

for this parent for caring!

**riskykougra** · 11-18-2005, 04:41 AM

I agree with everyone else. Atleast these parents care enough about their daughter to want her to have a future of choices and not an uneducated one. Alot of parents these days just give up because they are too busy with their own lives and like FBP said atleast the mother didnt just leave her there alone she proves she cares enough about her daughter to do anything for her.

**riskykougra** · 11-18-2005, 04:43 AM

Ooops... I dont know what just happened but for some reason this posted twice so Im just gonna delete this one and hope no one notices....

**kgsilvas** · 11-18-2005, 08:08 AM

Hooray for the parents, and the daughter. She should be glad that her parents care, since so many seem not to anymore. Bet she cleans up her act.

**doolittle** · 11-18-2005, 09:43 AM

If her parents really cared, they would teach her how to be a grifter.
It is a cute statement. I'm not sure that embarrasing her in front of the whole country will improve her behavior or not, It should inspire a change of somekind

. It will definitly come out in a psychotherapy session in her future. I guess the parents do deserve some credit for at least trying to solve thier problems.

**Mommypooh** · 11-18-2005, 11:19 AM

I would like to see a follow up at the end of the school year and hear about her behavior and her grades and see if it really did make a difference.

I think some kids need a good swift kick in the rear and it may have been what she needed.

**bachviet** · 11-18-2005, 03:07 PM

Not a bad idea

**ialsohaveadream** · 11-18-2005, 04:01 PM

Originally Posted by Mommypooh

I would like to see a follow up at the end of the school year and hear about her behavior and her grades and see if it really did make a difference.

, but...

Originally Posted by Mommypooh

I think some kids need a good swift kick in the rear and it may have been what she needed.

I don't think it will work.

**Mommypooh** · 11-18-2005, 04:39 PM

That is why I want to see an update on this at the end of the school year.

**Prisoner 24601** · 11-18-2005, 04:48 PM

Interesting to see the outcome... if this just changes her for a week and we go back to normal or if it really does help! We gotta be careful coz soon we might see kids on every street corner!!!

But at that age, its better to humiliate then to spank!!

**riskykougra** · 11-19-2005, 09:18 AM

Better her standing on a corner now and hopefully improving herself than standing on the corner 4 years from now working to pay her rent...

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