Results 1 to 12 of 12

Thread: Love does not last longer than one year

  1. #1
    Vice Chairwoman, Joint Chieftess of Staff nickel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2002
    Location
    Jeterville, NYY
    Posts
    17,889

    Love does not last longer than one year

    Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:36 AM ET

    ROME (Reuters) - Your heartbeat accelerates, you have butterflies in the stomach, you feel euphoric and a bit silly. It's all part of falling passionately in love -- and scientists now tell us the feeling won't last more than a year.

    The powerful emotions that bowl over new lovers are triggered by a molecule known as nerve growth factor (NGF), according to Pavia University researchers.

    The Italian scientists found far higher levels of NGF in the blood of 58 people who had recently fallen madly in love than in that of a group of singles and people in long-term relationships.

    But after a year with the same lover, the quantity of the 'love molecule' in their blood had fallen to the same level as that of the other groups.

    The Italian researchers, publishing their study in the journal Psychoneuroendocrinology, said it was not clear how falling in love triggers higher levels of NGF, but the molecule clearly has an important role in the "social chemistry" between people at the start of a relationship.
    http://today.reuters.com/news/newsAr...E-MOLECULE.xml


    you know there is some merit here. that "new" love does wane, and gets replaced with one that doesn't really cause butterflies anymore.
    it's the familiarity that does it i suppose.

  2. #2
    Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?

  3. #3
    Vice Chairwoman, Joint Chieftess of Staff nickel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2002
    Location
    Jeterville, NYY
    Posts
    17,889
    Quote Originally Posted by ialsohaveadream
    Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?
    you can test that one out.

  4. #4
    Quote Originally Posted by ialsohaveadream
    Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?
    No. It becomes something else. I believe its more meaningful the 2nd time around.

  5. #5
    Chief of Naval Operations johnnymk's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2000
    Location
    LEVITTOWN< PA> USA
    Posts
    13,621
    If the definition of love is nothing more than a feeling, I can see the correlation.
    “Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery.” (Winston Churchill)

  6. #6
    Chief of Naval Operations Markel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2001
    Posts
    11,874
    Quote Originally Posted by johnnymk
    If the definition of love is nothing more than a feeling, I can see the correlation.


    I guess the idea of a commitment is getting so old-fashioned.
    stay low... keep moving...

  7. #7
    Quote Originally Posted by nickel
    you can test that one out.
    I'll pass. It's over.

  8. #8
    Rear Admiral Lower Half tupacboy's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2000
    Location
    border of oc and la
    Posts
    2,382
    hmm lets make a pill!!!

  9. #9
    Fleet Admiral ShawnLee's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2000
    Location
    Huntington Beach, CA, currently in Korea
    Posts
    7,635
    Quote Originally Posted by tupacboy
    hmm lets make a pill!!!
    Seriously, what could be a better anti-depressant than a love pill?
    Quote Originally Posted by InfiniteNothing
    The truth is, anyone can be a wolf in sheep's clothes. Except maybe Hillary. That's a wolf in a slightly less attractive wolf's clothing.

  10. #10
    Admiral zenbooty's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2000
    Location
    Prime Material Plane
    Posts
    7,486
    Quote Originally Posted by ShawnLee
    Seriously, what could be a better anti-depressant than a love pill?
    A .38 revolver.




    (bah-dum, pshh! )
    Common sense is what tells you the Earth is flat.

  11. #11
    Fleet Admiral
    Join Date
    Oct 2000
    Location
    In a nutshell
    Posts
    9,678
    Quote Originally Posted by zenbooty
    A .38 revolver.




    (bah-dum, pshh! )
    HAHAHAHHH...classic. Perfect response.

  12. #12
    Commander zero2dash's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2000
    Location
    Fenton, MO - but I wish I was at the beach. ANY beach.
    Posts
    1,367
    Quote Originally Posted by Jihforce
    No. It becomes something else. I believe its more meaningful the 2nd time around.

    My wife and I were together...then we broke up and got back together again and got married. The 2nd time around it was definitely different, in a better way.

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •